Three Thousand Stitches ~ Sudha Murthy
Three Thousand Stitches
Ordinary People
Extraordinary Lives
Three Thousand Stitches is a book with a
collection of 11 short stories. Every story you read is a quintessence of Sudha
Murthy’s Journey and Real-life experiences, with a message engraved in every
story. These simple yet powerful, heart-warming stories will sink you with a
mixture of emotions.
Being chairperson of a non-profit organization (Infosys
Foundation), these are instances of her philanthropic work.
For more than two decades, she has been working for
underprivileged societies.
1st Story
Three
Thousand Stitches:-
This is an awesome story and a blazing example of social work. “Devdasi”
is one of the worst rituals in Karnataka temples that has been going on for several
decades. Sudha Murthy steps into this project to eradicate such dehumanizing rituals like the one-woman army. Later, she gets a young companion, Abhay Kumar (a
young man from Delhi). They got death threats from the pimps and local goons,
but everything was trifarious to their inevitable spirit of goodwill. Together
they helped almost three thousand Devdasi and their children to get back to
their everyday life and as a reward, they gifted her an embroidered bedspread
with three thousand stitches.
“ This
is from our hearts to yours. This will keep you cool in summer and warm in winter.
Just like our affection towards you.”
2nd Story
How
to Beat Boys:-
In this story, Sudha Murthy has described her hurdles during her college
days as the one and only lady in her engineering college. She has described how
she used to be teased by calling it "Potato" and other tantrums. But
she has not blamed her classmates for such behavior; on the contrary, she has
blamed their psychic inabilities and our conservative society that discouraged
the mingling of boys and girls even as friends.
Gradually when she started unleashing herself and started glowing in her
academics, those backstabbers faded away. But she was very cautious while
mentioning those odds. She has never mentioned that all boys were obstacles on the contrary she has admitted that those were the same boys who taught her some of
life’s lessons later, such as the value of keeping a sense of perspective and
being sporty.
Yes, she has formulated a way to shut up Backstabbers, that is
‘performance’.
“I aimed to
become self-sufficient, I would be my best friend and my worst enemy.”
3rd Story
Food
For Thought:-
This story describes several vegetables and their origins. A
delicious story detailing India’s vibrant and diverse appetite for its food.
“Who really said that
India is a country? It is a continent- culturally vibrant, diverse in food and
yet, distinctly Indian at heart.”
4th Story
Three
Handfuls of water:-
The author’s life was irrevocably altered by a journey to Kashi For a
Ganga bath and a Promise to give up a longing while offering three handfuls of
water.
“If you decide to
fulfill your vow with your heart and soul, then the desire for the object goes
away with time and that way of life simply becomes a habit.”
“Give up what you love
the most.”
5th Story
Cattle
Class:-
In this story, she has described a misshaped incident that happened to
her at Heathrow International Airport in London and a befitting reply-
“There
is nothing shameful in knowing the native language. It is, in fact, my right
and my privilege. “
There is also a great story about George Bernard. George Bernard Shaw was
a great thinker of his time. We can learn a great lesson from this part.
“My mind, no way
affected by the clothes I wear.”
6th Story
A
life Unwritten:-
An important message is conveyed through this story of Sudha Murthy’s
father R.H Kulkarni, that a single act of kindness can mean the world to
someone.
“A few kind words and
encouragement had changed a young girl’s life.”
7th Story
No
Place Like Home:-
This is a tragic tale about the hardship of women who, in an effort to
provide a better lifestyle for their family, move to places like Kuwait and
Dubai in search of more salary and a pleasant lifestyle- only to find
themselves reduced to the whims and fancies of their employers. Sudha Murthy
gave up on her life’s dream to send these women back home safely.
“India is changing.
Gone are the days when people worked for a minuscule salary. Honesty carries a
high price in India now.”
8th Story
A
Powerful Ambassador:-
This is a great message to all of us that signifies the impact of movie
content on us and also signifies the evolution of Bollywood toward western
culture and its worldwide impact.
“I
have followed the evolution of Bollywood through the use of technology
and also from simple innocent romances to the aggressive and bold
portrayal of it today and from classical dances to the drill-team type of
dances to breakdance and now, twerking.”
This
is so apt. She has also explained that marvelously-
“If somebody talks
about the importance of good values, it may impact one person in the
crowd. If someone writes about them, then it may change a few
more. But if it is shown in Bollywood through a powerful story, then
the impact is much more drastic. As an actor, one must own the
responsibility to spread the right messages.”
9th Story
Rasleela
and the Swimming Pool:-
The 21st-century version of the age-old stories of Krishna’s Rasleela and
Draupadi’s story of the Akshayapatra is edited and narrated by Sudha Murthy’s
granddaughters.
10th Story
A
Day In the Infosys Foundation:-
The title itself contains a synopsis of the narrative. The twist is that
Suddha Murty accompanied her buddy around one day since she couldn't understand
why she couldn't go to a ceremony at her friend's house.
“It is not that simple.
A day at the foundation is filled with many activities, some of which aren’t
easy to explain.”
11th Story
I
Can’t We Can:-
“Confidence doesn’t mean that everything will go our
way. It simply gives us the ability to accept failures that we will
inevitably meet on our path and move forward with hope.”
Alcoholics Anonymous is a community that helps alcoholics give up the
habit of drinking for good. What is their story? What do they do? How do they
help others? Where do they operate from? And also how alcohol affects our
society and future generations.
“One of life’s goals is the ability to
understand human nature and raise a fellow being from rock bottom to becoming
a useful member of society. We all lose a few battles in our lives,
but we can win the war.”
.... Mrs. Sudha Murhty on Three Thousand Stitches ....
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